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UPCOMING VIRTUAL RETREAT

Dating for You: A Retreat for Women Ready to

Choose, Not Chase!

It’s your Glow-Up Season: Confidence, Clarity and Connection start here!

Ready for a Fresh Start in Love?

Are you a single woman who’s ready to date again — whether you’ve never been married, are coming out of a long-term relationship, or rebuilding after divorce? Maybe you’ve tried online dating, taken breaks, or found yourself stuck in the same frustrating patterns — and you’re ready for something different.

Join us for Dating for You, an exclusive 3-hour virtual retreat designed to help you get clear on who you are, what you need, and why you need it. This isn’t about chasing love — it’s about choosing differently, finding YOU and creating a dating experience that feels aligned, confident, and joyful.

I’m Ready to CHOOSE, NOT CHASE!

ABOUT ME!

I’m Carmella Bell, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Life Coach, and Amazon Bestselling Author. My passion lies in empowering others to overcome self-judgment, boost their confidence, and develop greater self-awareness. I help my clients navigate relationships, life transitions, and personal growth with a blend of humor and wisdom, guiding them toward a fun and authentic dating life.

SAVE MY SEAT

MY MISSION

My mission is to revolutionize how people use the power of their words to enrich relationships. Drawing on my expertise as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and coach, I guide my clients in understanding their thoughts, expressing feelings authentically, and communicating effectively. Through collaborative group sessions, I foster a sense of belonging and mutual growth, reaffirming that mastering communication is the key to personal transformation and meaningful connections.

MY VISION

My vision is to serve as a catalyst for positive change, inspiring individuals to master the art of effective communication. I strive to equip people with the confidence to articulate their needs without hesitation, fostering openness, understanding, and mutual respect. Through my work, I aim to build a future where thriving relationships, empowered self-advocacy, and authentic connections define our communities.

MY APPROACH: How to Date for You™

Forget cookie-cutter dating advice and “Tips & Tricks” you aren’t equipped to execute well. My approach blends therapy, coaching, and real-life experience to help you stop chasing love and start choosing yourself.

Dating isn’t about chasing love or proving you’re enough—it’s about showing up as your whole, healed self and letting connection meet you there. The How to Date for You™ framework helps single women stop repeating old patterns, rebuild confidence, and make dating fun again by focusing on growth, not games.

I'M READY TO CHOOSE NOT CHASE - I'M IN!

Saturday, November 22nd, 2025 • 1 PM CST (Online Event)

We Must Build the Foundation for Aligned, Confident Dating

Before you can attract the right relationship, you have to reconnect with yourself. If you’re not clear on who you are or what you need, dating becomes a pattern — not a path.

My Signature H.E.A.R.T. Framework was created to help women move from old patterns, rebuild low self confidence, strengthen communication skills and set healthy boundaries.

It’s about helping you build the foundation for aligned, confident dating, so you stop chasing connection and start choosing it.

The Dating for You Virtual Retreat is where the journey begins. Together, we’ll focus on the first three foundational steps of that framework — the clarity work every confident dater needs:

These three steps are where real change begins — and they’re the heartbeat of everything inside the Dating for You experience.

You’ll Learn To:

✅ Know Who You Are

✅ Know What You Need

✅ Know Why You Want It

Because when you date from self-awareness, every connection becomes a reflection of your growth — not your gaps.

Every part of the H.E.A.R.T. Framework builds on this foundation — helping you grow from clarity to connection.

Saturday, November 22nd, 2025 • 1 PM CST (Online Event)

Why Most Women Stay Stuck (and How You’ll Break the Cycle)

Let’s be honest — most dating advice focuses on how to get someone to like you.
But here’s the truth: you can’t attract what aligns with you if you’re still unclear about who you are and what you truly need.

When you chase love from a place of fear, loneliness, or pressure, you attract confusion.
When you date from clarity and confidence, you attract connection.

The How to Date for You™ method helps you:

  • Unlearn old patterns that keep you stuck

  • Reconnect with your worth

  • Build a mindset that makes dating fun, not frustrating

Because when you choose you first, everything about dating gets easier — and a lot more genuine. 💖

Learn the How to Date for You™ Way

CLIENT TESTIMONIALS

  • Today’s retreat was a 10 out of 10 for me. I felt so supported and encouraged. The Know Your Why lesson, Lifestyle Alignment exercise, and workbook activities were eye-opening — especially seeing my core values through both a personal and dating lens. The workbook was excellent and extremely helpful. Everything flowed, nothing felt rushed, and I didn’t want to miss a minute. This retreat gave me clarity I didn’t even know I needed.

    How To Date For Virtual Retreat 2025: Karen Skinner

  • I realized I’ve never actually dated in a healthy, intentional way. Today helped me slow down and truly reflect on my core values instead of just jumping in. The group discussions were powerful and the workbook activities helped everything click. Thank you for hosting — this retreat was exactly what I needed.

    How to date for you Virtual Retreat 2025: Andrea Carter Merceline

  • I learned so much about myself — especially my core values and personal traits. The Know Your Why lesson, Lifestyle Alignment activity, and workbook exercises were incredibly transformative. I felt inspired, supported, and motivated throughout the entire retreat. I wouldn’t change a thing.

    How to Date for You Virtual Retreat 2025: L.H.

  • I left today feeling inspired, supported, encouraged — all of it. The Lifestyle Alignment exercise and reflections helped me reconnect with who I am and what I truly desire from a man. I needed this reset. Amazing experience!

    How To Date For You Virtual Retreat 2025: A.S.

  • My biggest takeaway is that I need to start with ME. What are my core values? What do I truly want — and what do I need from a partner? I was surprised when I looked up and it was 4pm… the time flew by, but it never felt too long. The pacing was perfect, the coaching was powerful, and the workbook made everything make sense.

    How To Date For You Virtual Retreat 2025: L.P.

  • I came to Conversations with Carmella in a season of transition - and with transition often comes uncertainty. Through her wisdom and guidance, Carmella helped me clarify my thoughts and face some hard truths that I had been avoiding. What I love most is that while she challenged me to be honest with myself, she also gave me tools to refill my vessel. Because of her, I feel clearer, stronger, and genuinely excited about what lies ahead. I thank God for her gift and the way she uses it to pour into others. I will continue to apply the tools I've gained on my journey forward. Thank you Carmella!!!!

    Jackson Matthew

  • Ive attended so many of these wonderful non-judement thats allows us to Take Offf our Mommie Hats Wifey Hats & So Many other Hats and to Just be Yourself and Speak your truth ❤ She follows up for any updates what we talked about Worked or Didn't Work !! Commmmme See for Yourselves

    Cassandra Bigred Remo

  • While our sessions have only began, I think she is wonderful. I would recommend her to anyone who is needing to find themselves again. She has been a blessing and I strongly believe she will help me find myself before my sessions end. Thank you for your kindness Carmella!

    K. Johnson

  • Carmella is amazing! She is personable, communicative, and understanding. I feel as though I’m in a safe space with her.

    C. Mason

  • Carmella is an incredible therapist! She has taught me so much about how to communicate in healthy ways with my partner and ask to have my needs met. Her advice and guidance is invaluable and I'm so grateful we were matched on this platform.

    M. Kelly

  • Carmella listens to me and I never feel judged. Very easy to talk to and has a lot of great advice.

    T. Wilson

  • I am so thankful for Carmella. She got me through a pretty low point in my life and gave me the tools and encouragement and confirmations I needed to take control back over my life. I look forward to our weekly meetings and all she has to offer.

    M. Watson

  • We have only met for a few sessions and I am already seeing positive results! I highly recommend Carmella

    M. Austin

  • She is great at cutting out the barriers I have set for myself and validated while still steering me on a better path. She is quick to respond and will not leave concerns hanging. She has the real world experience to know how to navigate current issues and cares about the big picture. Highly recommend Carmella.

    T. Smith

  • I truly enjoy working with Carmella! She listens, asks questions, allows me to look at my situation from a 360 degree angle and identifies various things I need to work on and provides suggestions and tools to address them.

    P. Jones

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